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Episode 157 · October 8, 2024

Dr. Wendy Shirk: On Maximizing Potential & Purpose

with Dr. Wendy Shirk, Business & Executive Coach, Founder of Shirk Consulting

44 min

Dr. Wendy Shirk: On Maximizing Potential & Purpose

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In this episode

In this episode I sit down with Dr. Wendy Shirk, a business and executive coach who is passionate about helping people maximize their full potential. Wendy and I actually connected through social media and mutual friends, and we're about to attend a Christian business women's event together in Florida, so this conversation felt like the start of a real friendship. I love that we got to dig into both her professional journey and the deeper, more personal parts of her story.

Wendy shares her path from teaching business communications and serving as a dean at Oral Roberts University to building Shirk Consulting and becoming a board certified coach. We talk about what she calls your "sweet spot" — that place where all of your experiences and your God-given gifts meet — and how staying there makes life feel less like work and more like purpose.

But what made this episode so special is how raw and vulnerable Wendy was willing to be. She opened up about grieving the recent loss of her mother, her healing through Celebrate Recovery, and her journey as a breast cancer survivor. None of that was on my list of questions — God directed that conversation. If you're carrying grief, walking through a hard diagnosis, or learning to bring your story into the light, I think you'll feel seen here.

Key takeaways

  • Your 'sweet spot' is where all of your life experiences (the horizontal axis) meet your God-given gifts and spiritual essence (the vertical axis) — and when you live there, life feels less like work and you make a bigger difference.
  • Go through grief, don't go around it. After losing her mother, Wendy stepped away from social media to give herself real time to heal — and she encourages you to take the time you need instead of burying the hurt.
  • Transparency brings things into the light. Wendy shares that being open about her struggles — childhood trauma, anxiety, body image — through community like Celebrate Recovery took away their power over her.
  • Celebrate Recovery isn't just for addiction — only about 30% of people there are dealing with drugs or alcohol. It's a place to work through hurts, habits, and hang-ups of all kinds.
  • As a breast cancer survivor, Wendy reminds us that survivors are often forgotten after surgery — the ongoing fear, medication, and body-image realities deserve compassion and support too.
  • Your greatest detriment can be your greatest hook. God doesn't waste anything you've been through — when you 'curate' the good and the bad, your story becomes the thing that connects you to others.
  • Public speaking is the number one fear for most people, but simple, proven techniques (like using brief notes instead of a teleprompter and looking up often) can transform you fast — even eliminating filler words in a single session.

Chapters

  • 00:00Welcome and introduction to Dr. Wendy Shirk
  • 02:30A quick word about the Conversations with Passion and Purpose live event with Carissa Miller
  • 04:00How Nancy and Wendy connected through networking and social media
  • 05:30Wendy's background: teaching, becoming a dean, and starting Shirk Consulting
  • 10:00From consulting to coaching and becoming board certified
  • 14:00What Wendy loves about coaching and the 'sweet spot' framework
  • 18:00Grieving her mother and stepping away from social media to heal
  • 22:00Wendy's superpower, faith, and finding her people in Celebrate Recovery
  • 27:00Her breast cancer journey and bringing awareness during October
  • 33:00Special interests: God-given design, maximizing purpose, balance, proactive living
  • 38:00Family, marriage, and grandchildren
  • 40:00How Wendy works with clients and The Maximizer Institute
  • 44:00Conquering the fear of public speaking
  • 47:00Grow More in 2024: Wendy on a growth mindset and keeping God at the wheel
I love to watch people maximize their purpose and produce results.
When you have to grieve, take the time you need. Go through it, don't go around it.
Your greatest detriment can be your greatest hook if you learn how to make it so and how to curate your life.
When it's in the light, God can deal with it. It's when it's in the dark recesses of your mind that it becomes so much bigger than it ever needs to be.

Resources mentioned

About Dr.

Business & Executive Coach, Founder of Shirk Consulting

Dr. Wendy Shirk is a board certified business and executive coach with a background in business communications education, including years teaching at Oral Roberts University and serving as Dean of the College of Arts and Cultural Studies. Through Shirk Consulting and The Maximizer Institute, she helps entrepreneurs, C-suite leaders, and nonprofits discover their God-given design, maximize their purpose, and grow. She is a breast cancer survivor and active in the Celebrate Recovery community at Battle Creek Church.

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