August 11, 2026
The Enneagram Saved My Family — Episode 244: Katie Ruley
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The Enneagram Saved My Family — Episode 244: Katie Ruley
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Episode 244 This episode is extra special — Katie Ruley was one of my very first guests back when this podcast was audio-only, and now I get to sit across the table from her on video! Katie is the founder of EnLighten Enneagram, and in the five years since we last recorded, her coaching business has grown in ways neither of us could have predicted. We talk about the "scary yes" that started it all, what makes the Enneagram so different from every other personality assessment, and how understanding her family's wiring transformed Katie's marriage and her relationships with her four kids. Her reminder that "a better me is a better we" hit home for me — I think it will for you too. Connect with Katie: enlightenenneagram.com (she's also on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn — and yes, you can even text her; the number is on her website). Today's sponsors: Five Star Painting of Tulsa (fivestarpainting.com/tulsa) and Colonial Title (colonialtitle.com). Chapters: 0:00 Coming up 0:21 Sharing Passion & Purpose 0:38 Welcome: Katie returns to the show 1:27 How a podcast word she didn't know became a calling 5:21 What makes the Enneagram different: motivation, not behavior 6:50 A word from our sponsors 7:44 Saving her family relationships 12:38 "A better me is a better we" 14:37 Who Katie serves: girls' nights to corporate teams 18:40 Sponsor: Colonial Title 19:16 Myths: is the Enneagram at odds with faith? 24:05 Rapid fire + the book she's going to write 31:27 Until next time ABOUT NANCY Nancy Moore is the host of Sharing Passion and Purpose, a weekly podcast offering career and creative inspiration to help you build a purpose-filled life — pursuing a career with passion, tapping into your creative potential, and building on your best resource: yourself. ABOUT KATIE RULEY Katie Ruley is the founder of EnLighten Enneagram, where she coaches individuals, couples, families, and corporate teams to understand the "why" behind how they think, feel, and act. Learn more at enlightenenneagram.com. CONNECT & GO DEEPER Join Nancy's free community: https://www.skool.com/sharingpassionandpurpose Podcast website: https://sharingpassionandpurpose.com Work with Nancy: https://nancymoore.co
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